For Alex

For Alex: Your comment brought up some interesting points. This blog is orientated to male submissive behavior.
There are also women, many women, who want the authority of a strong man in their life. The strong confident, female business executive may want to come home to a man that puts her over his knee.
None of this changes the fact that there are men in the world, many of them, who want  to be bossed around by women.

In a way society has been unfair to the guys. It has always been OK for a female to be submissive to her husband. It has always been acceptable for a woman to work under the supervision of a man. Until recently it has not been acceptable for a man to be submissive to his wife. The world is made up of different kinds of people. There is general push for equality in relationships. No one, husband or wife, takes the vow of obedience. This may work for some couples.

Alex raised the question about female submissive literature such as Fifty Shades of Gray. Is is bad for a male submissive to read it? My guess is that it won't hurt a submissive man to read it, but he probably would not enjoy it. I asked John if he would like to read the book. Not really was his response. Suppose while reading you were able to picture your self in the role of the female submissive. Maybe, was his response.

On some level I believe female dominance is a learned behavior. After a while you learn to accept your role as head of the house and mistress to your husband. It becomes who you are. Just like the young man who becomes an army officer. It quickly becomes normal to have other people solute and call him sir.

The real danger in an egalitarian marriage is if one partner is highly submissive, and the other partner is not willing to accept this. Once again, this is why Femdom 101 is written. Here is the test question for all of you who have been reading the blog. In this blog I have often talked about a message .  In your comments I want you to respond by telling me what is the message of Femdom 101,  and why you agree with it or not. Has this blog in any way helped either you or a spouse  deal with submissive behavior?

For the males you may think of responding to this assignment as an order from mistress that msut be obeyed. I especially expect to hear from my older boys. You know who you are.

Mistress